Men at 50 women at 40

Things you should know about #marrying an older person. By older person I mean women after 40 and men after 50.

~~~~Men after 50 are getting tired. They have worked so hard and have passed through many challenges and trails. Some have gone to prison and back. Some have lose different jobs, some have had several heartbreaks, some have been diagnosed with terminal diseases. Diabetes, High blood pressure, Heart problem, Kidney,Liver,prostatitis,etc. Some are in serious debts because they tried several businesses, invested so much, took loans from bank and the business crumbled. Just to list few of the things men go through to take care of his family. So when he gets to 50,he needs rest. He doesn't want anything that will stress his life. He wants peace and tranquility. If you are a woman who cannot give him the rest which he needs, he will either leave home and abandon you with the children or he will keep a side chick who gives him that rest, peace and care. A man after 50, does not like noise. He wants support, advice, care, assurance and peace. If u can't give him these, he will either die soon or leaves you. So if you are a lady who is planning to marry a man above 50,learn sense and know where you are going to👌. 

  ~~~~~Women after 40 have also seen a lot. They've worked so hard, given birth to children and bringing them up.Fighting to make sure their children stay healthy and harmless.They have tried several businesses, had several challenges, battling with their own kind of inflammations. They have gone through emotional stress from men. All they want to do after 40 is rest. They don't want a man who will stress them. They don't want noise or argument. They just want peace. If u read most of the profiles of women above 40,all they mention is no stress relationship. They want a man who will not stress them. So if you are about to propose to a woman above 40,be wise👌. 

~~~~~The paradox in life is, Men are stronger but very weak. While Women are weaker but very strong. That's why the smallest stress or sickness will kiii à man faster than à woman.

Women, when your man gets to 50,intensify your care. Don't stress him. Men, when your woman gets to 40,support her and be there for her. Don't stress her. Both of you are tired. At this point a good woman will marry another wife for her husband. That wife will act as a care giver to mama and daddy. I have seen women in the villages do that. They bring in a good and submissive younger girl to help them at home especially pah. You the woman have some rest while pa is being massaged daily. 

 ~~~~~My preaching of today is this; when your man gets to 50,dont stress him. When your wife gets to 40 don't stress her. Live in peace as much as you can so you can live longer.